All seven members of BTS possess talent, visuals, and admirable character—not to mention their global fame, highly successful careers, and immense wealth. Notably, they are now in their 30s, often considered an almost ideal age for a man. These factors make them the ultimate ideal boyfriend figures in the eyes of millions of women worldwide. Naturally, they receive no shortage of dating offers, yet dating and marriage still seem quite distant for them at the moment.
During a livestream following the first concert night in El Paso on May 2 (local time), RM pointed out a reality: “My friends are starting to have kids now one by one. I myself am still a kid.” Continuing the topic, he reflected more deeply: “It’s amazing finding your partner so quickly… We’ll be able to do well too someday?” Then Jin responded pragmatically: “Life is unpredictable.”
Fans realized that even top K-pop superstars are going through the same concerns as any young adult navigating life. However, what fans admire most about the members is their mindset: they accept their own pace, yet never stop hoping for a happy future.
In fact, long before this, Jin had already imagined his married life and shared thoughtful reflections about his future wife. This past statement resurfaced and went viral again following his brief remark in the recent livestream.
At the time, Jin told fans that he occasionally cooks at home despite his busy schedule because he values maintaining good health. For that reason, whenever he thinks about his future wife, he often imagines them cooking together. “I have a thought that I’m always thinking about while making food. With my future wife, if we cooked and ate together...I always cook while thinking about how great that would be”, he shared.
Jin even expressed the happiness he feels simply from imagining cooking with the person he loves. “Sometimes I feel joy when I think about those things", he said. He continued, “Sometimes I get too pleased while thinking those thoughts. And there are times when I burn the food but, even so, I feel happy when imagining things like that. While waiting for a day to come like that someday…”
Every word Jin spoke at the time could melt the heart of any woman listening. Instead of grand promises or unrealistic dreams, what he longs for is a simple yet fulfilling future. The image of a successful, busy man who still cherishes the idea of cooking for the woman he loves represents the height of romance. Through both his thoughts and actions, Jin clearly embo∂ιєs the image of an ideal husband—gentle, caring, and family-oriented.
Through various interviews and questionnaires about his ideal type, Jin has consistently expressed a preference for women who are gentle, willing to do housework, enjoy taking care of the home, and like cooking. These qualities closely resemble his own personality, suggesting that he hopes to find a partner who shares the same values. He likely believes that such compatibility is essential for emotional connection and for building a strong, lasting marriage.
On the other hand, nowadays, not many men enjoy spending time in the kitchen—and even fewer are truly sкιℓℓed at cooking, especially when it comes to complex dishes. Jin is an exception. He is not only capable of preparing a wide variety of foods but also frequently cooks for himself and others, including his fellow BTS members. Everyone has their own way of expressing love, and for Jin, his love language is food.
And surely, no woman could resist delicious meals prepared by her own husband—especially a husband as handsome and seemingly perfect as Jin. Just imagining sitting at the dining table, watching him confidently move around the kitchen with his broad shoulders, and then seeing a table full of nutritious dishes appear is enough to make many ARMY feel a little envious of his future wife.
