With their near-perfect appeal in almost every aspect and undeniable charm, the members of BTS have undoubtedly received millions of “marriage proposals” from fans around the world. Among them are not only devoted fans but also beauty queens, famous actresses and singers, and even some of the Angels of Victoria's Secret. However, none of them has ever truly had a chance with these top K-pop superstars.
That very fact has continued to spark curiosity among fans and the public alike: What kind of person could actually win the hearts of these global K-pop icons?
Fortunately, BTS has never been overly secretive about this topic. Over the years, the members have openly shared their thoughts about their ideal types in interviews, variety shows, and even during live broadcasts.
Based on those genuine moments, we have compiled a list of the qualities that make up the “perfect girlfriend” according to BTS. Through this, you might also discover which member has the most easygoing standards—and who might be the most demanding.
Starting with the eldest member, Jin once revealed that he is easily attracted to women who know how to cook and take care of the household. He also appreciates a gentle personality and a soft, feminine style—such as oversized shirts, jeans, and sneakers.
Meanwhile, Min Yoongi has never provided a detailed list of qualities, instead emphasizing the importance of a good first impression. When asked what he would like to say to his future wife, he simply replied: “A word for a kind woman: Please take good care of me.”
On the other hand, if you want to capture the heart of BTS’s leader, Kim Namjoon, you may want to pay attention to a few small but important details—especially regarding appearance. He once mentioned that a woman wearing high heels could catch his attention because it gives off a feminine aura.
RM has also said that he likes someone who is both intelligent and feminine, with a soft and attractive voice. He is drawn to people who can have deep conversations and who have a clear direction in life. Notably, he also mentioned that he does not like women who smoke or party excessively.
As for j-hope, he places great importance on personality, sincerity, and appearance. In a recent conversation with Sana from TWICE, he added that he is particularly attracted to people who think differently from him—those who have their own unique perspectives.
“I haven’t been asked that in 10 years… But I do have a clear answer. It has to be someone different from me… I feel a spark when someone has a different perspective from mine. For example, if there’s a pear drink, I’d think it has pear inside. But someone else might answer from a totally different angle", he explained.
Next are the two younger members, Kim Taehyung and Park Jimin, whose ideal types focus more on personality and appearance. V once said that he is attracted to people who are unique and pure. He also revealed that he would be especially touched if a girl made him a cup of hot cocoa in the morning—a small gesture that speaks volumes.
Jimin once admitted that he is drawn to people who are charming and a little quirky. Gentle and feminine beauty might catch his attention, but what truly wins his heart is someone who is thoughtful, emotionally open, and loving through small gestures—such as cooking for him or comforting him when he feels down.
And finally comes the ultimate “boss level”—Jeon Jungkook—who arguably has the highest or most demanding standards for his ideal type, despite being the youngest member.
In some of his earliest interviews when BTS had just debuted, Jungkook mentioned liking tall girls with fair skin. However, in later interviews as he matured, he began emphasizing intelligence and sophistication more when describing his ideal partner.
But those descriptions alone may not fully capture how high the bar really is. To illustrate it more clearly, a teacher named Kim Dong Wook—currently a кσяєαn literature professor at Seoul National University—once said: "Want to marry Jungkook Uh? You have to get into Seoul University first. Jungkook's ideal type is a girl who is smart and stu∂ιєs hard."
Although the statement seems to be humorous, it carries meaningful implications. Seoul National University is widely known as the most prestigious university in South кσяєα, reserved for individuals who are highly intelligent, disciplined, and ambitious—exactly the qualities Jungkook now seems to value.
That’s not all. When describing his ideal girlfriend, Jungkook added another factor: he likes girls who are good at starting conversations and taking initiative in romance, because he himself is not very good at initiating things. He also hinted that he prefers someone who can match his energetic personality and playful teasing nature. However, he also noted that very few people can actually handle this side of him—at the moment, only those closest to him can.
So, if you want to catch the attention of the famously “picky” Jungkook, you’ll need to show off your intelligence, cuteness, and charm—along with a bit of confidence!
