The longing to find one’s perfect other half is a journey shared by everyone, and most of us already have an ideal image in mind of our future husband or wife. Naturally, for girls who are fans of K-pop, male idols often become the most original blueprint of a dream partner. On the other hand, fans also can’t help but wonder what standards idols themselves might have when it comes to their own “ideal wife.”
For ARMYs around the world, learning about the ideal types of the BTS members has always been a hot topic that never loses its appeal. Surprisingly, although the members rarely share details about their private lives, they have been quite open over the years about talking about their ideal girlfriends or future wives—giving ARMYs endless material to discuss.
For example, fans clearly remember that leader RM prefers a woman who is both feminine and ѕєχy. He wants to be able to talk with her while also listening to her beautiful singing voice. Jungkook once said in an interview with GQ кσяєα that he is attracted to women who are hardworking, always give their best, and have a wide range of interests. Meanwhile, Jin is a true food lover, so he wants a girlfriend who can cook well and has a gentle personality.
While some of these specific standards may seem a little hard to meet, SUGA surprised fans with his simple and pure vision of a future wife. In a school αѕѕignment, SUGA was once asked to describe his “future wife” and write what he wanted to say to her. Young Min Yoongi’s answer was brief yet sincere:
“A word for a kind woman: Please take good care of me.”
That single sentence alone was enough to melt the hearts of millions of ARMYs. There was no need for someone extraordinarily attractive or exceptionally talented—being kind, caring, and loving was already more than enough to become his “other half.”
“Please take good care of me” may sound simple, but it actually carries deep meaning within a relationship. It shows that SUGA values emotional connection, places great importance on trust in a partner, and longs for a calm, sincere relationship rather than soмєтнing flashy or superficial. This ideal also perfectly matches who he is—a clαѕѕic example of someone who appears cold on the outside but is warm on the inside.
Beyond this vision of his future wife, SUGA later shared more details about his ideal type in several interviews throughout his career. He said he wants a partner who is calm, understanding, and—most importantly—someone who loves hip-hop and rap, his two greatest pαѕѕions. Once again, this standard highlights his desire for a wife who can truly take care of him: gentle enough to be his safe haven, and emotionally attuned enough to connect with the artist within him.
Coincidentally, today also marks 13 years since SUGA was first announced as one of the seven members of BTS. From a 20-year-old rookie stepping into the idol industry for the first time, he has now grown into a world-clαѕѕ K-pop artist with a remarkably successful career—both as a member of BTS and as a solo artist under the names SUGA and Agust D. It has been a long journey driven by pαѕѕion, one that SUGA has bravely pursued to the very end with unwavering determination, hard work, and talent.
There is surely no girl who wouldn’t be moved and come to deeply respect SUGA after hearing about or witnessing everything he has been through. At this point, ARMYs can confidently believe that they stand a chance. His description almost perfectly matches the personalities of true ARMYs—those who have consistently supported and expressed their admiration for SUGA and his music over the past decade.
No wonder fans can never hide their excitement, repeatedly shouting, “Yoongi, marry me,” every time they see him. And in response to SUGA’s 'request' from years ago, ARMYs have been leaving heartfelt (and playful) comments across social media platforms like: "I’m ready to take care of you forever, SUGA!", "Loving hip-hop? Already done. Now I just need SUGA!", "Of course, I’ll take very good care of you Yoongi", "Yoongi I promise I would", "Oh Yoongi.. My sweet baby. He deserves the best. I hope he finds someone warm and full of love", "Well he says "thanks for takin care of me" everyday when we wake up side by side !!!", "And that's precisely why I'm here!!", "I volunteerrr myselffff",...
