ARMYs are likely already familiar with Jung Jiwoo, not only because she is the older sister of J-Hope, but also because she is a highly influential figure in the fashion and beauty industry. Over the past six months, Jiwoo had paused her content creation activities on YouTube for personal reasons. Then, on April 4, she made a surprise return to her channel with a nearly seven-minute video, sharing updates about her life after a long break. Notably, about half of the video was dedicated to discussing childbirth.
Jiwoo shared, “The most difficult news is actually... about IVF. Since this is a personal matter, I was really hesitant to talk about it.” She continued, “During my hiatus of five or six months… I’ve been seriously considering and decided to proceed with IVF. I started IVF last November and recently had my first embryo transfer. It didn’t go well. It’s what they call a chemical pregnancy. So, the first attempt ended with unfortunate news.”
However, Jiwoo added, “But I’m recovering well and staying healthy. They say it’s quite common in the IVF process, so I’m trying to accept it calmly… So, my Juragi, don’t worry… I’m still considering the second egg retrieval and embryo transfer decisions.” She also asked for understanding from her fans, saying: “Since it was so hard for me to share, I hope my Juragi will be considerate of these aspects. Please avoid making too many αѕѕumptions or asking overly personal questions.”
Fans who closely follow Jiwoo’s social media are likely aware that over the past six months, she has frequently faced rude comments and invasive questions about childbirth, including sensitive issues such as miscarriage. Such questions are clearly extremely inappropriate, especially as they could cause significant emotional pain to someone going through the difficult journey of trying to conceive like Jiwoo.
Meanwhile, this situation has reminded fans of j-hope’s reaction when Jiwoo once mentioned her plans for having a child. At the time, with a bright and excited expression, he told his sister: “If it’s a nephew, we’ll have a lot of fun. If it’s a niece, I’ll spoil her so much and probably buy her a lot of gifts.” His reaction not only warmed Jiwoo’s heart but also moved the au∂ιєnce and everyone present.
While j-hope—the person closest to her—only expressed support and happiness upon hearing his sister’s plans directly from her, strangers have taken it upon themselves to judge and intrude rudely into her private life. The stark contrast between the reactions of some viewers and j-hope highlights a troubling reality about the decline of online etiquette.
At this point, fans have also expressed anger on Jiwoo’s behalf while comforting her with supportive messages: "I remember last year when people kept suspecting her being pregnant, so invasive and insensitive to fertility issues. I hope everything goes well for her. Baby dust for her", "No wonder why those weird comments about asking when she's going to have kids affected her", "She has asked them multiple times to stop asking cause its a very sensitive topic for her. Tbh, they shouldn't be asking anyways cause its none of their business and crossing a line", "Seriously, LEAVE THAT WOMAN ALONE. Do people not understand that's rude if she wants to tell you she will", "I'm so sorry for whatever you're going through rn. You will be blessed with your first child soon Jiwoo have faith",...
Others even imagined what it would be like for BTS superstar j-hope as an uncle taking care of his future niece or nephew, commenting: "Can't wait to see uncle Hobi. I hope everything goes well for her", "His sister looks so happy hearing he would spoil her kids", "Along with Hobi, the baby will have 6 more uncles", "Awwww, why my eyes got tears? For sure, he will buy a lot of gifts whether it's a girl or a boy", "Hobi already has the "rich unmarried aunt who spoils their niece/nephew" energy",...
